When it comes to discussing the funeral process, a lot of people don’t know what to do. Losing a loved one is sometimes unexpected and usually terrifying, but it’s all part of life’s complex design that we must inevitably prepare for.
A funeral is a ceremony connected with the final disposition of a corpse. The funeral process in the UK, USA and Australia involves all preparations on a corpse, the funeral service and final disposition.
The average time between death and the funeral is 2 to 5 days in Australia, 3 to 7 days USA and 1 to 2 weeks in the UK. Most religions require the corpse to be buried as soon as possible if a traditional cemetery funeral ceremony is planned.
Before we dive into the nitty-gritty of the funeral process and making funeral arrangements, you should know that there are a million things to take care of when a loved one dies and below are the crucial things to strike off your funeral arrangement checklist;
When a loved one dies unexpectedly, instead of making funeral arrangements immediately, first call the emergency services to request for an ambulance and the police. These will contact a Coroner to determine the cause of death before allowing the death to be registered. A funeral ceremony cannot be conducted until the Coroner’s inquest has been completed and a cause of death has been established.
If a person died abroad, register the death in the country in which he/she died to get a consulate death certificate and also register it in the country of birth before making funeral arrangements.
If your loved one dies at home, and the death was expected, call their General Practitioner (GP) or the National Health Service helpline. They are the first contact in the funeral process. If the cause of death is known, a doctor will issue a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death, allowing you to register the death before proceeding with the funeral process in UK, USA or Australia.
If your loved one passes away in a hospital, there is hospital staff specialized in bereavement matters to explain the funeral procedures to you so you can effectively plan a funeral.
Acquiring a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death depends on where your loved one died and is issued only if the cause of death is known. This certificate is required in order to register the death of your loved one in their birth country — this must be done within 5 days in England or Wales and within 8 days in Scotland, before you plan a funeral. Deaths in Australia must be registered within 7 days.
The certificate usually includes the following information about the deceased; Name, Age, Place of death and Cause of Death.
The difference between a Death certificate and a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death;
Across the UK, each certified copy of a death certificate costs between £8.00 and £11.00, in the USA, prices range from $5.00 to $25.00 depending on the State and Australia charges $77.00 (this includes a standard certificate).
The next step is registering the death of your loved one, it is vital in commencing the funeral process. To register a death in the UK, find the nearest registrar’s office or the nearest vital statistics office for those in the USA. A death is registered by the deceased’s next of kin or any close relative as they are probably the ones who’ll plan the funeral.
To register a death, you need the following documents; a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death signed by a doctor, Birth Certificate, Council Tax bill, Driving License, Passport, Marriage/Civil Partnership Certificate if applicable, NHS Medical Card and Proof of address.
You also need to provide the registrar with; name of the person who died, home address, date and place of birth, details of where and when the person died, occupation if applicable, the name, occupation and date of birth of their spouse or civil partner if applicable and if they were receiving any benefits, including pensions or allowances from public funds.
After registering a death, you will receive a Green Certificate that allows you to bury or cremate your deceased loved one in the UK. This is called a Cremation Permit or a Disposition Permit in the USA and Australia and it is needed to begin funeral arrangements.
UK has a “Tell Us Once” service that allows you to notify the death of your loved one to various government departments simultaneously. Some of the departments on this service include; HM Revenue and Customs (HMRC), Department for Work and Pensions (DWP), Passport Office, Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency (DVLA), The local council and Veterans UK). This service helps quicken the funeral process.
Now that you’ve obtained the necessary documents, it’s time to proceed with the funeral process. There are a number of things to remember when organizing a funeral ceremony which is why it is important to keep a funeral arrangements checklist.
A funeral arrangement checklist spells out all the things that need to be put in place for the funeral ceremony including the funeral arrangement cost and the funeral service price. Your funeral arrangement checklist should include;
One very important aspect of the funeral procedure in UK, USA or Australia is the disposition of the corpse. There are two ways in which a funeral service can end; the body can either be buried traditionally or cremated.
Globally, more people are embracing cremation as opposed to traditional burial. Today, 77% of all funerals in the UK are cremations rather than burials. Cremations in Canada and Australia take up almost 68.4% whereas some states in the USA such as Nevada and Washington have a rate as high as 76%.
Cremation is a method of converting a body to basic elements via heat. During cremation, the body is placed in a large special purpose kiln for several hours where the temperature is raised to approximately 2,000 degrees. After separating all impurities, the remaining bone fragments and ashes are processed and placed into an urn selected by the family during the funeral arrangements. All cremated remains are then individually tagged and accompanied by an affidavit of cremation.
Impurities in cremation include; gold and other medical metals. These come from jewelry, gold teeth, metal hip implants and ornaments from coffins. A magnet is run over the cremated ashes to lift out these metals, while large replacement joints have to be removed manually. On an average, cremation takes about 1 to 3 hours for a human body to completely turn to ashes.
Purchasing a cremation urn for the ashes is not compulsory; the ashes can be collected in a temporary container or a transparent plastic bag provided by the crematory. Choosing an urn can be skipped in the funeral process.
Since cremation is irreversible, the state requires a next of kin to authorize cremation in writing; normal funeral procedure in UK and USA is for a medical examiner to identify the body first. Cremation funeral services can include any or all of the elements of a traditional burial including visitation, a wake, and church service either before or after the cremation. Some crematoria have video streaming facilities available, allowing absent family and friends to watch the cremation funeral service live on the internet. If you want this service, plan for it in the funeral arrangements.
In direct cremation, the body is cremated shortly after death without embalming, viewing or visitation. Embalming is required only if cremation will be done after.
After the cremation ceremony in the funeral process, decide what will be done with the remains of your loved one. You can decide to take them home in an urn, to include scattering of ashes in the funeral service or to purchase keepsake urns for all family members.
The funeral procedure in UK requires the following paperwork before cremation is authorized;
The Cremation Authority requires 2 medical certificates from 2 separate doctors; the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death signed by a doctor who has viewed the deceased and determined the cause of the death plus a confirmatory Medical Certificate signed by a 2nd independent doctor, also certifying the fact and cause of death. If your funeral process involves cremation, ensure to get these certificates ready.
The next step in the funeral process is what makes cremation appeal to most people compared to traditional burial. People are looking for more uniquely customized ways to honor their loved ones as opposed to burying them in the ground or simply storing their ashes in an urn as is the norm after most funeral ceremonies. Finding a final resting place for cremated ashes provides the bereaved with a go-to place or memory that they can hold onto in honor of their deceased.
The process of turning human ashes into cremation diamonds takes 6 to 9 months(1 ct) and the cost of cremation makes it an expensive process. For starters, the hair/cremated ashes of a deceased are analyzed to determine whether they contain enough carbon to be turned into a cremation diamond, about 200g of ashes or 10g of hair are required. The ashes are then placed in a specialized crucible which is heated to over 5000F to make sure every element except carbon oxidizes. Temperature is raised further so that carbon can become graphite. The graphite with a metal catalyst and a diamond seed crystal are placed into the core. The core goes into a specialized diamond press capable of creating extreme tension which then starts working thus bringing the pressure to about 800,000 pounds/square inches. During the last stretch when the press is working, the temperature in the room stays about 2500F so that the ashes turned cremation diamonds become solid. This process results in rough crystals that are cut and polished into cremation diamonds/memorial diamonds
When it comes to the funeral procedure, there’s no way we can talk about a funeral ceremony without talking about religion. According to some estimates, there are roughly 4,200 religions in the world each with a different opinion on the funeral procedure.
A burial is a short funeral ceremony where the coffin containing a deceased is lowered into the ground. It takes place after the main funeral service and includes short readings and prayers, depending on the deceased’s religious beliefs; it is common tradition to scatter soil or funeral flowers onto the coffin after it has been lowered. When this funeral ceremony concludes, family and friends place floral tributes near the grave.
A burial service can be held at home, in a churchyard, cemetery, and woodland burial sites or at sea – depending on how you plan the funeral procedure.
In the USA, the Environmental Protection Agency regulations for full body burials at sea require that the site of interment be 3 nautical miles from land and at a depth of at least 600 feet.
In Australia, burials at sea are regulated by the Department of Environment which issues sea dumping permits. The permits for this funeral procedure are only granted to those with a demonstrated connection to the sea, such as long serving navy personnel or fishermen. However, a fee of $1000 must be lodged with the application for this permit.
No embalming is allowed for burial at sea as this preservative leads to water pollution. So, if your funeral procedure involves burial at sea, use a cotton sheet or biodegradable body bags instead. Also, the coffin must have holes drilled through it and be evenly weighted with 200kg of iron, steel or concrete clamped to the base. Materials such as plastic, zinc, copper and lead are not permitted.
Paperwork for a burial funeral ceremony includes; the burial certificate/green form received when you register a death and a burial plot application form for if you want to purchase a new grave or re-open an existing burial plot. The exclusive right of burial is purchased for 75 years with conditions attached depending on the type of grave. If your family already owns the Exclusive Rights of Burial for a grave, you need to provide either the Deed of Exclusive Rights of Burial or evidence that you are the proper person to have the Burial Rights so as to speed up the funeral process.
Funeral arrangement costs incurred in burial include; the exclusive right of burial (this is the burial plot itself), the interment (for the preparation of the burial plot), reopening an existing burial plot, removal and replacement of existing memorials, purchasing a new memorial or headstone and the coffin/casket.
Cremation provides a more permanent solution to the shortfalls of the funeral industry such as global shortage of cemetery space and exorbitant prices charged by the few existing ones. London boroughs; Tower Hamlets and Hackney have ceased providing burial services and therefore residents have to go to neighboring boroughs to bury their dead, making the funeral process more tedious. In the USA, most of the largest burial grounds such as Washington Cemetery in the Brooklyn borough of New York are either filled to capacity or have just a few years left.
Besides religion, the deceased’s traditions, customs and beliefs are also underlying factors that shape the funeral process in UK, USA or Australia.
Everything in the funeral process in the USA, UK, or Australia from obtaining the medical certificate of cause of death to organizing the funeral service requires money. The funeral arrangement cost for the funeral process depends on the country; for example, some crematoriums in the UK will not charge a fee if your loved one was under the age of 17.
The average cost for a cremation is £3,744 in the UK whereas the average cost of a burial in the UK is £4,271.
The average cremation cost in USA is about $1,100 as of 2017 while the average cost of a burial in the USA is approximately $7,000 and $10,000. Thus, a funeral process involving cremation will cost less than a burial in the USA.
The average cremation cost in Australia is $4000 compared to the $15,000 cost of an average Australian burial (Coffin + burial). So, it costs less in Australia to plan a funeral that involves cremation.Prepaid Funeral Plans
In figuring out the funeral arrangement costs for the funeral process, there are prepaid funeral plans you can consider;
Pre-need: You pay for funeral products/services long before death, making the funeral process easier. You can also commit to a particular funeral provider and make monthly or quarterly payments to a third party such as a funeral insurance company over a set period of time.
Preplanning - You make decisions about the type of funeral, the type of ceremony, and the products you would like. Your funeral process planning can be as simple or as detailed as you like. You can then leave the instructions with your loved ones to take care of the rest of the funeral process when the time comes.
However, ask the following questions before signing any pre-need contract;
In the UK, your local council or hospital can arrange a public health funeral ceremony if there isn’t enough money in the deceased’s estate to pay for it or there are no relatives or friends to arrange the funeral. UK had 3,784 public health funerals between 2015 and 2016 only.
You can also apply for the Funeral Payment scheme from the government. This doesn’t cover all funeral arrangement costs and you have to pay the government back. Money shouldn’t be a hindrance to planning a funeral for your loved one in the UK.
In the USA, if you're surviving child or spouse of a person who qualified for Social Security benefits, the government provides a one-time death benefit of $255 that you can put toward funeral expenses and proceed with the funeral procedures.
In Australia, the Area Health Service organizes a destitute funeral for the deceased who is usually cremated unless there’s objection from the bereaved. If cremation is picked, the next of kin is entitled to have the ashes of the deceased but if a burial is requested, the deceased is buried in a common grave identified by a number with no other headstone. This shows that the funeral process in Australia mostly involves cremation rather than burial.
Crowdfunding (also called crowdsourcing) is another way to raise money for a funeral process by requesting donations from the general public e.g. through specialized sites dedicated to funeral and memorial financing such as Deposit a Gift, GoFundMe.com, fundthefuneral.com etc.
There you have it, everything you need to know about the funeral process in UK, USA, Australia and the rest of the world.